Come on in, Sis!!!
Grab your tea! āļøš itās another snow dayā¦I know you need it, lol!
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Before we get into itā¦how are youā¦really?
Have you checked in with yourself today?
Not the āIām fineā fine, but the honest one!
Yeah⦠that one, lol!š
If notā¦take a deep breath and a second to thank God for this small moment to reflect š
Okayā¦you ready?! Letās talk! lol
Lately, creativity has been sitting heavy on my heart. Not in a bad way. But in a way that makes me think deeply about my gifts and hereās what Iāve learned so far:
Iāve been reading Genesis, and this time it hit me differently. I felt this deep wave of gratitude wash over me because my Father, the greatest Creator, loved me enough to place creativity inside of me. Not just as a talent. Not just as something cute I do on the side. But as something written into my very being.
It felt personal. Like a Father passing something sacred down to His child š„°š„°
And honestly, itās a wonderful thing to belong to the One who hung the stars in place and still cares about the details of our hearts. To know that the same God who spoke galaxies into existence also thought about you and said, āYes⦠Iāll give her vision too.ā š„°
Now letās be real, sis. Being creative is beautiful, but it can also be frustrating. Because when you have many gifts, many ideas, many dreams, your mind can get cloudy. One minute youāre inspired, the next minute youāre overwhelmed like, āOkay God⦠which one am I supposed to focus on right now?ā Girrrl! Lol! Iāve been thereā¦honestly, Iām still there. Through the years Iāve been an event planner, Iāve made treats, a small amount of graphic designing, I was even doing hair at one point š„“š¤šš! Not to mention what Iām doing now with my business. Thatās just a small list. It seems like anything I put my mind to I can create with ease. Iām so grateful for that. However, but! š I wonāt sit here and act like I havenāt spent a few nights crying out to God asking him to show me what I should focus on.
Then society comes in real loud with its opinions.
Pick a lane.
Stay in your box.
Be consistent.
But over the years, Iāve realized God never called me to be one dimensional!Ā
He gave me vision. He gave me dreams. He gave me multiple gifts on purpose. And he did the same with you! Not to confuse you, but to stretch you. To remind you that your creativity doesnāt need approval from the world when it already came with His fingerprint on it!!!
Creativity has always been how I process. How I heal. How I express things I donāt always have the words for. And now watching my children create in their own ways stops me every time! My bigs (Natalya and Karter) are growing into their gifts and finding that they are multitalented. Natalya with hair braiding and Karter with his art! š„° My momma heart smiles every time I see a new creation from them!! I canāt wait to see what gifts AJ and Aria possess š¤
They are so gifted. All different. All beautiful.
It reminds me that creativity isnāt random. Itās inherited. Itās intentional. Itās generational.
So if youāve ever felt scattered, misunderstood, or pressured to shrink yourself into something more digestible, hear me when I say this. You are not too much. Your ideas arenāt extra. Your creativity is not a distraction.
Itās evidence.
Iām grateful to belong to God.
Grateful that my creativity is proof that I come from Him.
And I hope this space gives you permission to honor whatever creativity looks like in your life. Whether thatās art, business, motherhood, music, writing, or simply giving yourself permission to dream again.
You come from a Creator.
That matters.
Tea Time Reflection:
Where have you felt pressure to limit yourself instead of trusting the full vision God placed inside you? What might change if you allowed all of your gifts to coexist?
Next time, I want to talk about what happens when creativity meets obedience and why waiting on God doesnāt mean youāre falling behind.
Until next time,
Toyia š¤
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